KARMIC RELATIONSHIPS.: LOVE WITH PAIN

Love is a beautiful feeling , it can happen anywhere , anyplace , with anyone , anytime . Love has no boundaries as it's a feeling which you have to feel personally to understand , mere word's cannot describe it alone .

Am sure majority of the people on this planet must have fallen in love at least once in their life when the "someone special " entered their life and swept them off their feet , made them feel special , they were showered with compliments and those love messages which would pop up on our screen even in the middle of the night saying " I miss you " .

Every couple want's a perfect happy ending to their love story where the guy/gal proposes for marriage and the opposite sex says yes , at least this is what is shown in the movies and we are so mesmerized by what's shown in the movies that we react to it and start thinking as if we want our life to be the same like the movie character where relationship issues are solved in the end and all goes well and in the end " They lived happily after " .

Wow a perfect movie script but hold on off late i have been reading a lot of news in the papers about husband/wife , Girlfriend/Boyfriend with either one cheating or thing's getting so ugly that the very people who loved at one point where the only person who mattered the most was love of his life so what happened now ? Why is there not the same spark which was initially ? Why that couple don't even see today eye to eye , why one person is so much hurt that thought's of suicide start emerging ? Question's are many but no answer 

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Love is supposed to be beautiful and provide happiness but what if the same love starts becoming a PAIN ????????
Many young couple's are in karmic relationships and they never realize it and many have not even heard about it .

1. Do you always feel that you put in more effort in the relation than your better half

2. Are you the one who always calls up to say hi ,hello , love you , miss you and even text many times a day but nothing comes from the other side

3. Are you always the one who tries to sort things out even though you know it is not your mistake but you still apologize because you want to save your relationship

4. Have you ignored your friend's and family giving you red flags that your relation is not good and the person is not suitable for your love but you still ignore them and keep doing the mistake

5. Do you always feel that you are being used and are just a tool for the other person to satisfy their needs be it sexual , monetary or any personal vested interest.

6. Do you always keep wondering about your future and what does it hold for you .

7. Are you being treated badly where you are blamed for all the mistakes and you are made to look weak , insecure and pathetic

8. Are you always available to leave things and be there with your better half but they never do it for you when you need them

9. Are you been treated like a doormat where the relation is purely based on commercial purpose and they know your weakness and take you for granted

10. Is your relation based on chase and run where you allways chase them and they run away but then after some time they come back trying to get things work and when things seem normal they run away leaving you in lurch

11. Do they always threaten you or give you threats or emotional blackmail of harming themselves or doing things which would impact you mentally or physically

12. Are you with a person who is narcissist or who is so manipulative to make sure they get things get done the way they want and if u dont agree then you have to suffer their wrath

13. You have left your family , friends , relatives , your hobbies , your smile , things which made you happy for that other person while they continue to live their life their way while trying to control your life . They have manipulated you into thinking that they know what's best for you right from the dress to the place of dinner to the movie to the thing's which they think are good .

14. Do you feel suffocated more than being loved ? If you reflect your past do you see more sorrow , drama , fights than love , affection , mutual respect and bonding ??

If any of the points i mentioned seem familiar then chances are you are in a karmic relationship .
Karma has a way of getting over things , some is instant karma while other comes in the form in your next life where it makes you realize relationship the hard way .

I often come across people who want to listen only good things and i don't blame them as i have personally experienced it so i understand their feelings but what i don't like is to see people in pain and grief .
Love is meant to give you happiness , respect , security but when it start's taking your happiness then you should understand and leave it rather than keep taking on .

A person who truly loves you will never try to hurt you and will try their best to see you happy . Rich or poor does not matter it's the effort which people put to keep working on relationships . Relations are like job where u have to put in continuous efforts and hard work and come up with new ways of doing things to keep it blossoming day by day .
If you look people from previous generations had long lasting relationships so what was different then ?? They realized the importance of relation and considered it as a duty it was a sacred thing and ego was always kept aside .

Today our relations are filled with
1. Lust
2. Ego
3. Pride
4. Jealousy
5. Anger
6. Obsession
7. Insecurity
8. Non faithfulness
9. Revenge
If you realize that you are not being valued in a relation and that relation is killing you day by day then do yourself a favor and take a firm stand of leaving it .

The solution for karmic relationships is
1. taking a firm stand
2. Having self respect
3. Making peace with your ex
4. Forgive and forget
5. Remaining happy and living life for yourself
6. Say no to emotional drama

When you decide that from today on wards nothing can stop me from living my life happily that would be the day when your life will change . If your partner texts you after a couple of months trying to get back then kindly resist the urge and say a big " NO " and please mention that you have moved on in life and have found someone better who values you , your time , your effort , your love and your commitment cos if you get back then the cycle would keep on repeating and you would face the same issues again and again .